It’s a bachelors life

We’ve determined there are eight specific things that most women are attracted to in a guy. What we guys have to do is come up with ways of implying each of those eight attributes.

The first three relate to things you are: health, social intuition, and humor. Health is being in shape, being fit, and having an active lifestyle. When you’re around women, don’t ever talk about being sick or being tired or an injury that you had or anything like that. There’s an instinctive female emotional response to ill health: mothering. It’s definitely not a sexual type of feeling.

The second one is social intuition and is hugely important. Women don’t want to be with a guy who is socially awkward. Social intuition means recognizing all of the unwritten rules of social interactions and being able to navigate through them. It’s not etiquette; it’s not what hand to hold the knife and fork in, or any shit like that. But women are highly sensitive to social dynamics and how a man carries himself.

The third is humor. Humor predates language. It’s innate to who we are and has a huge effect on women.

Those are the three things that can be about you.

T-Nation has an interview with Nick Savoy, president of Love Systems a company that teaches guy how to pick up. They charge $2,950 so if you’re really challenged this may help.

Even in describing themselves they are not studs by any means, but if they get action then they must know some of the tricks.

They dress well but aren’t necessarily good looking. Some are skinny with patchy facial hair. Others are slightly overweight. A few are just plain fucking ugly. But they’re nothing out of the ordinary. They look like … guys. If you were at a bar hanging out and they walked in you probably wouldn’t even notice them.

You’d probably laugh with your friends as you watch one of them approach a group of gorgeous girls. But your laughter may turn to disbelief when you see the girls offer phone numbers. Disbelief might turn to shock as you watch a master pick-up artist walk out with the hottest one on his arm. And shock may turn to awe when you see him do it over and over again with different groups of sexy women.