It’s a bachelors life

I love dating. Meeting women and going out is an absolute blast. How is that possible? Simple: I eliminate all those uncomfortable aspects of dating we believe have to go with the territory. They simply are no longer part of the equation. Here’s how I do it: (Over the next several columns, I’ll examine each of these items in detail, using examples from my own life to illustrate.)

1 – No fear.
Don’t whine about how someone is out of your league or hesitate. If I did that, my penis would have become a dried up raisin years ago.

2 – Don’t get digits, get a date.
Don’t ask if you can call or for her number. Ask her out to something related to the conversation.

3 – Set the tone on the date.
Your job is to give her something to work with—know where you’re going to go, have reservations, know where to park, have enough cash…

4 – Stay confident.
No comments like, “I can’t believe you’re out with me,” or questions like, “You can go out with any guy, why are you here with me?” Women want confident men.

5 – Kiss in the moment.
A kiss is about passion and the moment, especially to women. Don’t wait until the end of the date. Instead, act in the right moment when you both feel it.

6 – Set the next date while on the current one.
Plan the next date while on the current one through the first three dates.

Most people fail to recognize the key to dating is momentum. These simple steps build momentum by eliminating all the uncomfortable aspects of dating that people agonize over—How long should I wait before calling? Should I try to kiss her at the end of the date? When can I ask her out again? Is he going to try to give me a goodnight kiss? Will he call? I haven’t thought about any of that crap in years; instead, I just get to enjoy the woman and our time together.

The full article at The Bachelor Guy